She: I want more sex. I want YOU to initiate more sex.
He: Maybe I'd initiate more sex if you'd make me stop feeling like shit all the time.
She: Maybe I wouldn't be making you feel like shit if you'd give me more sex.
He: Seems like a loop.
She: We should break the loop. With sex.
He: OK, then let's go have sex.
She: Not now. You have to get me in the mood first. You never get me in the mood. You always just want to have sex.